1. We must have a proper relationship to Jesus Christ
John 1:12 Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God--
It all begins with this foundation
2. Live a Positive Life
Look at the bright side of things
Don't Compare yourself to other people
Don't Complain
3. Take Control of Your Life
Don't let others control your life
Gal 6:2 Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.
Gal 6:5 for each one should carry his own load.
Gal 6:5 for each one should carry his own load.
v. 2 - Speaks of helping others in times of tragedy
v. 5 - Speaks of handling our daily responsibilities
One is like a Boulder
The other a Backback
Mat 5:37 Simply let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No'; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.
It is o.k. to say no.
This is adapted from a book entitled Boundaries by Drs. Henry Cloud & John Townsend
Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
Yes - you end up being more loving in the true sense of the word
What are legitimate boundaries?
Staying healthy and keeping healthy relationships
What if someone is upset or hurt when I say no?
They will be upset. You cannot control the reactions of others
Am I being selfish by saying no?
NO!
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